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Latest Episodes

The Heart Cry of an Old Saint: I Want to Be Clean!

4/19/2022

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Episode 850

In today’s episode, Stephen brings some wisdom to us from a man who has been on a journey of sexual wholeness for a while. What can we learn from an older saint in the faith? What is the value of pursuing faithfulness and continuing to fight for purity and holiness over a lifetime?

Our hope by sharing these nuggets of wisdom is that you might be inspired to keep going on your own pursuit of sexual wholeness – and recognize that what you learn along the way will have value to others on a similar journey.

More Resources:
  • Men.Bebroken.com
  • Women.Bebroken.com
  • Online Integrity Courses

Related Podcasts:
  • Beating Porn Through All Ages and Stages of Life
  • Sexual Healing and the Grace of God
  • The Power of Purity
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#846: When Shame Gets Real (with Carl Thomas)

3/22/2022

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Episode 846

​My guest today is Carl Thomas. Carl is the founder of Live Free Ministries, which provides resources like the Live Free Community app for men who hunger for real freedom from unwanted sexual behaviors, and the Live Free Wives community for spouses who need a safe space to heal from betrayal. He is also the author of a new book entitled When Shame Gets Real: A New Way to Talk About Sex, Porn, and Masturbation. 

Our conversation today revolves around this issue of shame – what it is, how it perpetuates unhealthy (and even unwanted) sexual behaviors, what it takes to live free from it, and why authentic community is so powerful for dealing with shame effectively. 

To learn more about Carl and his ministry, visit LiveFreeCommunity.org. To find out more about his book, go to WhenShameGetsReal.com.

More Resources:
  • Men.Bebroken.com
  • The Lies We Believe by Dr. Chris Thurman
  • Grace-Based Recovery Online Study Groups

Related Podcasts & Videos:
  • Overcoming the Fear that Lives in My Head
  • Recovery Discovery: No More Shame
  • Silencing Your Inner Critic
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#845: Love Triumphs: Mary Ann's Story of Grace, Truth, and Hope

3/15/2022

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Episode 845

In this episode, our guest is Mary Ann Otley. She has a powerful story of sexual abuse, addiction, and the healing power of Jesus. Her abuse planted seeds of lies about her identity that she carried for decades. But she also eventually experienced the radical grace and love of God. 

If you or someone you love has faced the pain of abuse or addiction, Mary Ann’s story and insights will help you discover hope, joy, and the faithful, generous, gentle love of Jesus Christ. You don’t have to live in shame, guilt, and despair. No matter how broken you feel, you can be made whole. 

Learn more about Mary Ann and her ministry at LoveTriumphs.com. 

More Resources:
  • Women.Bebroken.com
  • Fearless Series

Related Podcasts:
  • Help and Hope for Women to Heal from Sexual Abuse
  • Responding to #MeToo
  • What Lies Have You Believed

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#844: Overcoming Shame and Embracing Your True Identity

3/8/2022

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Episode 844

Today’s guest is Matt Cline, the Director of Restored Ministries in Edmonton, Alberta. He is a speaker and coach who considers it an honor to tackle the epidemic of pornography and help individuals and marriages be restored from the destruction caused by sexual sin and shame. 

In this episode, Matt shares some of his story and key principles and insights that are proven to lead people from brokenness to wholeness. Our conversation addresses taking a serious view of sin, combating shame, understanding your true identity, and reclaiming a godly perspective on the body.

Learn more about Matt and his ministry’s resources at RestoredMinistries.ca.

More Resources:
  • Help for Men: Men.Bebroken.com
  • Help for Women: Women.Bebroken.com
  • Help for Families: Family.Bebroken.com

Related Podcasts & Media:
  • Recovery Discovery: Identity
  • Recovery Discovery: No More Shame
  • How Identity Shapes Everything
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#843: How Do You Handle Pain?

3/1/2022

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Episode 843

In today’s episode, we talk about pain. We know this isn’t a topic most of us like to talk about, but all of us will face pain of various kinds throughout life; physical, emotional, psychological, relational, spiritual. 

What if one day your life changed fundamentally because of pain? How well would you respond? What does pain reveal about our emotional health and maturity? 

Join us as we explore how to respond to pain with endurance and learn to “suffer well.” There can still be hope and even joy and gratitude in the midst of great pain. 

Resources for Wives: WivesCare.Bebroken.com

Resources for Men: Men.Bebroken.com

Resources for Families: Family.Bebroken.com

Related Podcasts & Media:
  • Carrying a Heavy Burden
  • Managing Disappointment
  • Good Pain vs. Bad Pain
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#833: How (False) "Grace" is Perpetuating Abuse in the Church

12/7/2021

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Episode #833

So many stories have come to the surface over recent decades about pastor after pastor who has been living a double life that has hidden all kinds of sexual brokenness and sin. Much pain has been left in the wake of these stories.

In this episode, we read a blog post from Allison Fallon about her personal story of how this kind of betrayal played out in her own life. Then we spend time unpacking some of the key factors that often establish and perpetuate environments of hidden abuse within the church, such as isolation, unchecked and unaccountable power, pride, and even hiding behind one’s “calling.”

We close with giving hope and insights for how true grace-based environments can fight against these kinds of sins and abuses. We hope this episode will help both individuals and leaders to recognize the warning signs of danger and how to fight for truth and genuine grace.

Read Allison's blog post at AllisonFallon.com/grace.

Related blog: The Christian Response to Moral Failure in Church Leaders

Related Podcasts:
  • Help and Hope for Women to Heal from Sexual Abuse
  • Freedom and Healing from Shame, Addiction, and Abuse
  • Responding to #MeToo

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#829: Breaking Free with Russell Willingham

11/9/2021

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Episode 829

In 1999, I began my recovery from over 13 years of porn and sex addiction. One of the first books I read was Russell Willinghams’ foundational work, Breaking Free: Understanding Sexual Addiction and the Healing Power of Jesus. To this day I am reaping the benefits of this resource. In fact, the name of our ministry, Be Broken, is due in large part because of chapter 9 in Breaking Free, entitled “The Courage to Be Broken.” 

Today’s guest is none other than Russell Willingham. Russell has worked full-time with sexually broken people since 1993. He oversees individual, couples and group counseling at New Creation Ministries in Fresno, California. He has spoken widely across the nation on issues related to sexual addiction, the healing process, marital intimacy and spiritual formation. 

In this episode, Russell shares insights from his 30+ years of experience to understand sexual brokenness strongholds and how we can be truly set free from such compulsions. He unpacks the goodness of our desires, the reality of the struggle with sexual temptation, and the practical application of God’s Word in experiencing freedom, peace, hope, and joy that comes from authentic community.

Learn more about Russell and his counseling ministry at NCMFresno.org.

Related Podcasts and Media:
  • Breaking Free from Your Secret Habit
  • Freedom vs. Abstinence
  • Freedom and Healing from Shame, Addiction, and Abuse

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#827: Unoffendable: How Your Response to Criticism Affects Your Emotional Maturity

10/26/2021

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Episode 827

The world seems to always be ready to criticize and complain. What happens when those criticisms and complaints are directed at you? How well do you respond? In this episode, Stephen and Jonathan unpack how our responses to verbal barbs affect (and measure) our emotional growth journey. Discover the path of grace and love that sets your heart free from being offended and offers others the hope of Jesus.

Book: Unoffendable: How Just One Change Can Make All of Life Better

More Podcasts:
  • A Biblical Framework for Emotions
  • About Your Emotional Connecting Skills
  • Essential Truths to Heal and Mature Your Broken Emotional System

Help for Men: Men.Bebroken.com

Help for Women: Women.Bebroken.com

Help for Families: Family.Bebroken.com

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#823: Overcoming the Fear that Lives in My Head

10/5/2021

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Episode 823

Fear is natural and fear can be good; it's a kind of warning system. But what happens when fear goes beyond a healthy warning system and traps your mind in a vicious cycle of shame? In this episode, we will help you identify and understand your fear(s) in a way that offers you hope and a new vision for how to overcome fear. If you would like help in navigating your fears and learning to overcome them with grace and truth, please contact us.

Previous Podcasts and Media on Fear:
  • Recovery Discovery 008: Overcoming Fear
  • #763: Finding Rest by Speaking Out Your Deepest Fear
  • #776: How to Learn (and Respond to) Your Fear System


Blog Post: Coward No More

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#822: Porn, Technology, and Self-Control

9/28/2021

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Episode 822

Jon Wilkes is a tech guy. He also struggled with porn. This is his story of how his struggle and skill set turned into an incredible tool to help individuals engage in self-control while online. In our conversation, we talk about the difference between accountability and self-control, some features of Jon's technology, and some positive and negative trends happening in the tech sphere.

To learn more about Jon and the resources he has built, visit Pluckeye.net.

Other Internet Filters and Monitors: https://filters.pluckeye.net/

If you are part of a tech company that would like to partner with Jon and Pluckeye, contact Jon.

Related Podcast: Ideas for Self-Control

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