by Jonathan Daugherty
Dinner time at my house almost always produces memorable moments. It is a time when our whole family gathers around the table to eat, pray, and talk about our day. I like to ask my kids about school and anything else they want to share about their day. I have had many enjoyable interactions at the dinner table, not to mention many hilarious moments as well. Recently, we were eating boneless chicken for dinner (this will have significance in a minute) when such a memorable, hilarious moment occurred.
My kids and I decided to eat our chicken in a different sort of way. Rather than cutting it into bite sized pieces and then eating it like civilized human beings, we just stabbed it with our forks and ate it like cavemen (please don't email me chastising me for my poor parenting techniques...).
During our conversation, I set down my chicken on my plate with the fork sticking straight up out of it. My son, Ethan, sneezed or did something that caused him to bump into the table. When the table moved, my fork toppled over and fell off my plate and tumbled to the floor, with the chicken still attached. Splat! Chicken and fork landed right beside my chair leg. I leaned over and picked up the fork and then examined the chicken. It was covered with dirt and hair. (Let me remind you, I have three very active children under the age of nine in my house, so the dirt and hair combo is common on our floors.)
As I picked up the fork and chicken, I jokingly commented to my wife Elaine, "Honey, I know that typically your floors are clean enough to eat off of, but this one particular spot on which this chicken fell just so happened to contain some dirt and hair."
My wife, without missing a beat, replied with a wink, "But you still love me, right?"
Before I could respond with more than a smile, Megan (my youngest), chimed in as she leaned over the table toward my wife, "Mommy, I love you, even though you are sloppy."
Elaine burst out laughing (which cued the rest of us it was fine to join in with our own gut-busting laughter). Again, a memorable moment was created around my dinner table. But this time I didn't just let the laughter fade into nothing, as I saw this as a wonderful opportunity to share a biblical truth that we so often don't embrace in our daily lives. I decided to encourage my kids with the truth that God too loves us, even though we are... (fill in the blank). Elaine even brought up Romans 5:8, "But God demonstrates His own love for us in this; While we were still sinners, Christ died for us."
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